ABOUT US !  ⋅ ♆

ʚ ˒  ray, morgan, or harmony  . .  they / it  . .  20+
ʚ ˒  happily taken by the aspen system ♡ dec. 11, 2022
ʚ ˒  canadian
ʚ ˒  agnostic atheist + non-religious
ʚ ˒  fat + very passionate about fat liberation
ʚ ˒  therian (horse, red fox, + cat)
ʚ ˒  neurodivergent + mentally ill (audhd, bpd, + more)
ʚ ˒  physically disabled, chronic pain,  + chronically ill (suspected heds, gerd), primary visual snow syndrome, tinnitus, insomnia
ʚ ˒  c-did system
ʚ ˒  200+ known alters
ʚ ˒ fictive + nonhuman heavy

INTERESTS !  ⋅ ♆

ʚ ˒  misc: most animals (especially cats, pigeons (+ other birds), sharks (+ other aquatic creatures), frogs (+ other amphibians), horses, reptiles, etc), plants, the ocean, space, architecture, psychology, science, drawing/art, stargazing, stuffed animals
ʚ ˒  music artists: mitski, cavetown, marina, mother mother, bbno$, the crane wives, hozier, pinkpantheress, lady gaga, kesha, hatsune miku, girl in red, chappell roan, charli xcx, billie eilish, little mix, glass animals, alex g, pastel ghost, rihanna, tv girl, fish in a birdcage, penelope scott, halsey, vylet pony, ghost and pals, the neighbourhood, my chemical romance, get scared, set it off, the living tombstone, aviva, måneskin, lemon demon, conan gray, 100 gecs, three days grace, fall out boy, noahfinnce, jubyphonic, caravan palace, au/ra, imagine dragons, bo burnham, sufjan stevens, aurora, sub urban, etc
ʚ ˒  games: genshin impact, honkai: star rail, wolfquest, pony town, minecraft, star stable online, planet zoo, the sims 4, stardew valley, life is strange and life is strange: before the storm, tell me why, worldbox, various mobile games, etc
ʚ ˒  animes: the apothecary diaries, banana fish, scott pilgrim takes off, brand new animal, beastars, dr. stone, my hero academia, tokyo ghoul, death note, asteroid in love, etc
ʚ ˒  shows, movies, + books: my little pony (g4), steven universe, arcane, bluey, heaven official's blessing / tian guan ci fu (donghua, we also want to read the novels), grandmaster of demonic cultivation / mo dao zu shi (donghua), the amazing digital circus, murder drones, alien stage, the owl house, amphibia, carmen sandiego (2019), she-ra (2018), breaking bad, better call saul, severance, how to train your dragon, the spider-verse, kpop demon hunters, the hunger games (movies), warrior cats, wings of fire, the aurora cycle, etc
ʚ ˒  misc media: creepypasta, pokemon, sanrio, littlest pet shop
ʚ ˒  and more

highlighted are our special interests

these aren't listed in any particular order

we're critical of our interests and don't support problematic creators, we also avoid toxic fandoms

this isn't a sourcelist; we don't have fictives from all the medias listed here, and we also have fictives from medias that aren't listed here / we aren't interested in

DNI !  ⋅ ♆

ʚ ˒ basic dni criteria / t.r.a.s.h.
ʚ ˒ fatphobic, think fatphobia isn't real, or anti fat liberation
ʚ ˒ transmed / truscum
ʚ ˒ zionists / pro-israel
ʚ ˒ trump supporters / voted for trump
ʚ ˒ right-wing / conservative
ʚ ˒ think christians are discriminated against in western countries
ʚ ˒ ai "artists" or pro gen-ai
ʚ ˒ endogenic / non-traumagenic systems and supporters, think "sysmed" is a genuine/valid term
ʚ ˒ radqueers / transids
ʚ ˒ pro / darkshippers
ʚ ˒ edtwt / shtwt / thinspo / pro-ana
ʚ ˒ fakeclaimers
ʚ ˒ demonize cluster b personality disorders, including using cluster b or narcissist as a synonym for abuser or believe in "narc abuse"
ʚ ˒ demonize or romanticize disorders in general
ʚ ˒ against educated self-diagnosis
ʚ ˒ will harass or judge any of our fictives for their source for any reason
ʚ ˒ will tell our fictives they need to source separate
ʚ ˒ support or participate in cringe culture
ʚ ˒ anti-furries, anti-therians / alterhumans
ʚ ˒ sexualize or judge age regression
ʚ ˒ ours or our friends' exes and ex-friends
ʚ ˒ our age is in your dni

we can't list everything here; we also block freely

IWC / THIN ICE !  ⋅ ♆

ʚ ˒  former trump supporters ⋆⋆⋆
ʚ ˒  christians ⋆⋆⋆
ʚ ˒  bodily cis men ⋆⋆⋆
ʚ ˒  neutral about endogenic systems ⋆⋆
ʚ ˒  under 18 or over 28 bodily ⋆⋆▴
ʚ ˒  neurotypicals ⋆▴

⋆⋆⋆ = really uncomfy, will most likely avoid
⋆⋆ = somewhat uncomfy, will probably keep interactions in public servers
⋆ = a little uncomfy, will likely be somewhat wary
▴ = doesn't apply if we're already friends

PLEASE INT !  ⋅ ♆

ʚ ˒  other lgbtq+ people and neopronoun users
ʚ ˒  other osddid systems
ʚ ˒  other neurodivergent (especially autistic) people
ʚ ˒  other therians / alterhumans
ʚ ˒  if we have interests in common, especially special interests
ʚ ˒  other adults 20-25, we would love more friends around our age

anyone not on our dni is welcome to interact with us, this is pretty much just a list of people we'd be especially happy to make friends with

please keep in mind that we're very socially anxious / awkward and we may still have a hard time talking to anyone on this list, please don't take it personally and be patient with us; also, once we start talking we don't really shut up lmao

BYI !  ⋅ ♆

ʚ ˒  we need and use tone tags, but please avoid overusing them
ʚ ˒  we rarely if ever interact first unless we're friends
ʚ ˒  we're neurodivergent and mentally ill, this severely affects how we think and behave, please be patient with us and excuse us if we seem "off" or say / do weird things
ʚ ˒  we act and feel mentally younger than we are (about 17-18) due to neurodivergence, neglect, and ongoing trauma, please be patient with us and keep this in mind; we've actually always felt younger than we are, even as a young kid
ʚ ˒  we have somewhat variable empathy, please be patient
ʚ ˒  we sometimes switch between using we / us and i / me, but we tend to use we / us most of the time
ʚ ˒  don't ask about our triggers, trauma, vulnerable alters (littles, trauma holders, etc), unlisted disorders, etc unless we're close
ʚ ˒  don't hold our fictives accountable for things their source did or otherwise treat them like their source unless they explicitly say it's okay
ʚ ˒  we know that source separation is eventually important in recovery, however we are not currently in recovery and are unable to even be in recovery (our recovery is also nobody else's business); we don't force source separation unless necessary, please respect this and our fictives' choices surrounding separating from their sources or not
ʚ ˒  multiple of our alters age regress, though you likely won't see it as our alters almost always regress in private

FREQUENT FRONTERS !  ⋅ ♆

ʚ ˒  freminet  ⏑  (they / he / she)  ⋮  host  ⋮  carrd | rentry
ʚ ˒  crevan  ⏑  (he / him)  ⋮  co-host, love holder
ʚ ˒  varesa  ⏑  (she / they)  ⋮  caretaker
ʚ ˒  peruere  ⏑  (she / her)  ⋮  caretaker, protector
ʚ ˒  seth  ⏑  (he / they)  ⋮  protector, energy booster
ʚ ˒  wren  ⏑  (they / she / ce / shx)  ⋮  autism holder, caretaker
ʚ ˒  wanderer  ⏑  (he / they / it)  ⋮  protector, bpd holder
ʚ ˒ isabelle  ⏑  (she / her)  ⋮  protector, body caretaker
ʚ ˒ crystal  ⏑  (she / her)  ⋮  caretaker
ʚ ˒ arlo  ⏑  (he / they / paw)  ⋮  mood + energy booster

OUR DISORDERS !  ⋅ ♆

ʚ ˒  asd (autism spectrum disorder)
ʚ ˒  adhd (attention deficit hyperactivity disorder)
ʚ ˒  bpd (borderline personality disorder)
ʚ ˒  did (dissociative identity disorder)
ʚ ˒  ocd (obsessive–compulsive disorder)
ʚ ˒  schizo-spectrum
ʚ ˒  dyspraxia
ʚ ˒  tourette's syndrome
ʚ ˒  c-ptsd (complex post-traumatic stress disorder)

this is not an exhaustive list, we have a few other disorders that we don't feel comfortable mentioning publicly, these are just our "main" disorders that we're comfortable talking about that severely affect how we think and behave or that we may bring up occasionally